How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

BY Laura Lovejoy

It’s that age old question that springs to most women’s mind when they meet a new guy that they really like. How can I make him fall in love with me? Well as someone who managed to make a member of the opposite sex fall deeply in love with them, I have listed some fool-proof tips below.

It's Not Me, It's You - How to make a man fall in love.jpgBe attractive. But not too attractive. Men want someone who they can show off to their friends but at the same time, they don’t want someone who is going to to make them feel insecure. Do your hair and makeup and make an effort but be careful to not be too intimidatingly beautiful.

Be mysterious. Don’t give everything up in one go, leave him trying to figure out what makes you tick. It’s never cool to spill your whole life story after a few dates, it will likely end up in him running a mile. However, don’t come across as aloof as you run the risk of being seen as moody or like too much hard work.

Be fun. When food fails, laughter is the key to any man’s heart. Make the times you spend together fun-packed and he will always want to spend time with you. Be careful that you don’t come across as too much fun though if you’re looking for something long term he needs to know that you can be serious too.

Be independent. You have to live your own life and do things for yourself. There is nothing more attractive to a man than seeing a woman working hard and doing things for herself. At the same time, you have to make him feel needed. Leave some things for him, even if you’re perfectly capable of doing them yourself.

Be sexy. Sex is on most men’s mind and you need to show him that you have what it takes to keep it interesting long term but at the same time you can’t give it up too early because he will most certainly get the wrong impression.

Most importantly, ignore all the points above. The only way you can make someone fall in love with you is by being you whether you’re the least sexiest person on the planet or you’re about as mysterious as a bright orange road cone. If that’s not good enough then move on because he isn’t the man for you!

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  1. August 1, 2017 / 4:20 pm

    I couldn’t have said that better myself. Find out what works for you, all the rest are learning curves. A lot of women don’t realise, but men don’t have a ‘preffered’ taste. We are all tricked into thinking that we do, even men, but if you had a hundred men in a room and each was to pick their favourite woman out of a cluster of a thousand photos of entirely random aged / height / build etc women, I bet the results would be surprising!!

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