How therapy helped my relationship

Therapy. Once a taboo to talk about and now you’re almost weird if you’ve never had any. I have had it off and on since I was about 17 for various different things varying from…

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Is my relationship normal?

I get waaaaay too excited over Valentine’s Day. I get that it might be commercialised and a way for shops to get more money out of people but why not spend the day celebrating your…

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My Valentine’s Wish List 2019

I actually can’t believe that it’s February. We are already one month into 2019 and yes, that means Valentines Day is fast approaching and my Valentine’s wish list is getting bigger. The cynical see the…

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Could you be in an open relationship?

Everywhere I turn there seems to be something or someone talking about an open relationship. Cosmopolitan has a series on it, Louis Theroux has done a documentary and the people in my circle are talking…

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Top 10 Tips For Travelling as a Couple

Guest post by Melis on travelling as a couple. For most of this year, I lived in Singapore and was lucky enough to travel to 10 different countries over an 8-month period with my other…

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