Sweat the small stuff

Let face it, we all love a big old romantic gesture and while they are important in relationships they aren’t the be all and end all. I’m not saying that I wouldn’t be happy if…

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Tips for moving house as a couple

We’ve been through a few house moves as a couple. The first was me moving in with my boyfriend and his Mum, (if you’re thinking of doing the same – don’t. Or at the very…

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Being controlling in a relationship

Not letting your partner have any freedom and dictating all their decisions to suit yourself is controlling. Telling them what they can and can’t wear and who they are allowed to hang around with is…

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Feeling lonely in a relationship

Unless you’re way more liberal than I am, a relationship usually consists of two people and for most, it’s not something you would ever associate with loneliness. I mean, you’ve always got that one person…

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Should I go through my partners phone?

I was recently sent data which surveyed 1000 people to find out how many people snoop behind their partners back and why they do it. It’s a tough one. On one hand, going through someone’s stuff…

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