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The Day My Life Got Flipped-Turned Upside Down

BY Laura Lovejoy So flipped-turned upside down might be a slight exaggeration but recent events have certainly put a spin on things. I had to choose between what is best for myself and my own happiness…

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Tips on Spotting a Catfish

By Laura Lovejoy While the MTV show Catfished might have made people more aware of the strange people that hide behind keyboards and pretend to be someone else, this has been going for years and…

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Why Alcohol Is Bad For Your Relationship

By Laura Lovejoy Clint and I bicker about the cleaning sometimes, we sometimes fall out over him being inconsiderate or if I am being a moody bitch but we only ever have full on screaming…

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How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

BY Laura Lovejoy It’s that age old question that springs to most women’s mind when they meet a new guy that they really like. How can I make him fall in love with me? Well as…

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Infograpgic: Apps for Love

By Laura Lovejoy  You may have read my recent post on apps to improve or destroy your love life but the wonderful people at Carvaka Sex Toys have gone one step further and created the below infographic…

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