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A Letter To The 13 Year Old Me

It’s my 23rd birthday today and while I know that I am by no means old, the past 10 years has really flown by and it got me thinking how I have grown as a…

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5 Things You Should Know About Men, From a Man

  By Laura Lovejoy First things first, you will notice that this is a blog post on what you should know about men, from a man and I am most certainly not a man. This…

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A Little Less Matching, A little More Dating Please!

By Laura Lovejoy As dry as this might sound, I get excited about algorithms. Not as excited as I would get about a new Urban Decay eyeshadow pallet or a trip to Disneyland but I…

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Meeting the Mother of My Boyfriend’s Child

  By Laura Lovejoy   You may have read my previous post on how my boyfriend has started has started to see his son again, I finished that post on the point that I wasn’t…

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Dating a Younger Guy

By Laura Lovejoy I cannot stand the thought of dating a younger guy. I don’t care if someone was the most gorgeous guy on the planet, I simply could not date him. Yet, ageism is…

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