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A Little Less Matching, A little More Dating Please!

By Laura Lovejoy As dry as this might sound, I get excited about algorithms. Not as excited as I would get about a new Urban Decay eyeshadow pallet or a trip to Disneyland but I…

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Meeting the Mother of My Boyfriend’s Child

  By Laura Lovejoy   You may have read my previous post on how my boyfriend has started has started to see his son again, I finished that post on the point that I wasn’t…

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Dating a Younger Guy

By Laura Lovejoy I cannot stand the thought of dating a younger guy. I don’t care if someone was the most gorgeous guy on the planet, I simply could not date him. Yet, ageism is…

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Surviving a holiday with your boyfriend: 5 top tips

It’s rare for you to spend as much time with your partner as what you do on holiday. As dull as it sounds, most people (including myself) spend more time with people they work with…

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Which Dating App is the Best?

At one point, Tinder was my life. It wasn’t just a way of looking for love or to meet new people, it was entertainment and I spent way more time than I should probably admit…

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