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To anyone that has ever been lost

GUEST POST BY Lydia Haworth Your relationship’s ended. It’s hard to say what’s really ‘gone wrong’. Everyone is asking if you’re ok – but you’re not. Obviously. And where do you go from here? Everything…

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10 simple steps to keep a woman happy

Guys, keeping a woman happy is really not as hard as you think. Yes, we are wired differently to you men and sometimes it’s hard to understand each other’s way of thinking but unless you’re…

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Why did he give me the cold shoulder after our date?

When I first started talking to Clint I used to delete his number so that I wouldn’t text him, I would give his number to my friend to give to me only if I really…

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Confession: Extra Virgin

All confession posts are submitted by readers anonymously by email, send yours to lauralovejoy.lfl@gmail.com.  I met this guy while I was living abroad, he came to my school for a few weeks and we spent…

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Paris? How cliche!

Paris is the city of love, romantic gestures and candle lit dinners. Whenever you mention that you’re going you’re greeted by winks and the typical ‘do you think he will propose?’ nonsense. Yes, there is…

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