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Why did he give me the cold shoulder after our date?

When I first started talking to Clint I used to delete his number so that I wouldn’t text him, I would give his number to my friend to give to me only if I really…

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Confession: Extra Virgin

All confession posts are submitted by readers anonymously by email, send yours to lauralovejoy.lfl@gmail.com.  I met this guy while I was living abroad, he came to my school for a few weeks and we spent…

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Paris? How cliche!

Paris is the city of love, romantic gestures and candle lit dinners. Whenever you mention that you’re going you’re greeted by winks and the typical ‘do you think he will propose?’ nonsense. Yes, there is…

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