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Could you be in an open relationship?

Everywhere I turn there seems to be something or someone talking about an open relationship. Cosmopolitan has a series on it, Louis Theroux has done a documentary and the people in my circle are talking…

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Christmas gift guide

Let’s face it, we all hate getting shitty presents. Whether that’s a bottle of perfume you hate or body wash that always gives you eczema but you’re too embarrassed to tell your Aunt to stop…

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My pledge as a 24 year old

You may have read the post from my birthday last year, a letter to the 13-year-old me. This year, as I turned 24, rather than look back at the person I was, I instead wanted to look…

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How Coming off the Pill Changed my Mental Health

When I first went on the pill, I loved it. I stopped getting periods (I had seven years without one), which was a godsend and it was one of the biggest reasons I didn’t want…

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Top 10 Tips For Travelling as a Couple

Guest post by Melis on travelling as a couple. For most of this year, I lived in Singapore and was lucky enough to travel to 10 different countries over an 8-month period with my other…

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