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Being controlling in a relationship

Not letting your partner have any freedom and dictating all their decisions to suit yourself is controlling. Telling them what they can and can’t wear and who they are allowed to hang around with is…

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My pledge to stop comparing myself to my friends

For most of my life, I have felt like the fat friend. Or the uncool friend, or the worst dressed friend. To overcompensate, I try to be the funny friend in what I like to…

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Being diagnosed with Polycystic Ovaries

Last month, I found out that I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). After over a year of visiting the doctor and not being examined or my symptoms not taken seriously, I eventually saw a female…

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Dating for over 40s

Even though I am still young and I would be comfortable if I was single, I still wouldn’t like to be on my own when I am older. Unfortunately, it’s a reality that anyone can…

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Feeling lonely in a relationship

Unless you’re way more liberal than I am, a relationship usually consists of two people and for most, it’s not something you would ever associate with loneliness. I mean, you’ve always got that one person…

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