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Sweat the small stuff

Let face it, we all love a big old romantic gesture and while they are important in relationships they aren’t the be all and end all. I’m not saying that I wouldn’t be happy if…

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Alternative date ideas in London

You may have come across my date ideas post from a few months back which focused on date spots in London and includes some great suggestions from parks and bars to a prison museum. The post…

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We’re going through changes

Life is boring when you stay in your comfort zone and I have always thrived outside of mine. I went to a sixth form which was a 2 hour bus journey away from where I…

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Am I ready to approach brands as a blogger?

This post is a little different from what I would normally write but as my blog and social media following grows I keep setting different milestones before I start contacting brands. I would think, wait…

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Tips for moving house as a couple

We’ve been through a few house moves as a couple. The first was me moving in with my boyfriend and his Mum, (if you’re thinking of doing the same – don’t. Or at the very…

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