Mental health in relationships

In honour of mental health awareness week, I wanted to share my experience of mental health in relationships. This is a big deal for me. I’m not one to Tweet about a panic attack or…

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Falling out with the mother of my partner’s child

You may have read my post from a while back about meeting the mother of my boyfriend’s child. It was a strange situation, considering we had been together for three years before I met his…

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Tips for visiting the in-laws

It doesn’t matter if it’s your first time visiting the in-laws or whether you’ve done it every year for the past 10 years, there is lots to bear in mind. Unless by some freak of…

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How therapy helped my relationship

Therapy. Once a taboo to talk about and now you’re almost weird if you’ve never had any. I have had it off and on since I was about 17 for various different things varying from…

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My pledge as a 24 year old

You may have read the post from my birthday last year, a letter to the 13-year-old me. This year, as I turned 24, rather than look back at the person I was, I instead wanted to look…

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