Being controlling in a relationship

Not letting your partner have any freedom and dictating all their decisions to suit yourself is controlling. Telling them what they can and can’t wear and who they are allowed to hang around with is…

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Being diagnosed with Polycystic Ovaries

Last month, I found out that I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). After over a year of visiting the doctor and not being examined or my symptoms not taken seriously, I eventually saw a female…

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Dating for over 40s

Even though I am still young and I would be comfortable if I was single, I still wouldn’t like to be on my own when I am older. Unfortunately, it’s a reality that anyone can…

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Feeling lonely in a relationship

Unless you’re way more liberal than I am, a relationship usually consists of two people and for most, it’s not something you would ever associate with loneliness. I mean, you’ve always got that one person…

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Should I go through my partners phone?

I was recently sent data which surveyed 1000 people to find out how many people snoop behind their partners back and why they do it. It’s a tough one. On one hand, going through someone’s stuff…

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