The Key To A Happy Relationship

Everyone thinks the key to a happy relationship is communication, giving each other space and/or loyalty but you’re all wrong. The key to a happy relationship is actually… (drum roll please)… sleeping with separate covers. Okay,…

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Living With Selective Eating Disorder

“You’re just a fussy eater”, “Stop being awkward”, these are two phrases that I have had to listen to over and over again for most of my life. It’s only recently that I discovered that…

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Being Not Ok with Your Body Is Ok

As most girls, if not all of them, I spend a lot of time complaining about my body. My thighs are gigantic, my arms are flabby, I have three chins – the usual. I try…

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Does Anyone Ever Have Their Life Figured Out?

To most, I am a 23-year young woman, with a good job, a solid relationship, a car and a 10-year life plan. To most, I look like I have my life figured out. But, honestly,…

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A Letter To The 13 Year Old Me

It’s my 23rd birthday today and while I know that I am by no means old, the past 10 years has really flown by and it got me thinking how I have grown as a…

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