Is January the real month of love?

Did you know that the most popular day for online dating is in January? When you think of the 99 days of January, going on a date hardly springs to mind. I normally think about…

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Could you be in an open relationship?

Everywhere I turn there seems to be something or someone talking about an open relationship. Cosmopolitan has a series on it, Louis Theroux has done a documentary and the people in my circle are talking…

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Sweat the small stuff

Let face it, we all love a big old romantic gesture and while they are important in relationships they aren’t the be all and end all. I’m not saying that I wouldn’t be happy if…

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Being controlling in a relationship

Not letting your partner have any freedom and dictating all their decisions to suit yourself is controlling. Telling them what they can and can’t wear and who they are allowed to hang around with is…

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Feeling lonely in a relationship

Unless you’re way more liberal than I am, a relationship usually consists of two people and for most, it’s not something you would ever associate with loneliness. I mean, you’ve always got that one person…

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