Meeting the Mother of My Boyfriend’s Child

  By Laura Lovejoy   You may have read my previous post on how my boyfriend has started has started to see his son again, I finished that post on the point that I wasn’t…

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Dating a Younger Guy

By Laura Lovejoy I cannot stand the thought of dating a younger guy. I don’t care if someone was the most gorgeous guy on the planet, I simply could not date him. Yet, ageism is…

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Which Dating App is the Best?

At one point, Tinder was my life. It wasn’t just a way of looking for love or to meet new people, it was entertainment and I spent way more time than I should probably admit…

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Tips For Dealing With Anxiety in a Relationship

BY Laura Lovejoy I hate it when people go on and on about their anxiety issues, it’s as though anxiety and depression have become fashionable but what many people don’t know is that I suffer…

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The Day My Life Got Flipped-Turned Upside Down

BY Laura Lovejoy So flipped-turned upside down might be a slight exaggeration but recent events have certainly put a spin on things. I had to choose between what is best for myself and my own happiness…

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